Yoga or Breakfast?

Early one morning last week, as I drove into the parking lot at the studio, I saw one of my staff, Nick, had arrived even earlier than I. It wasn’t his day to work, so I wondered why he was there so early. As we walked upstairs, he told me he had a busy day planned and he had to decide whether to have breakfast or come to the studio for a class. Some people might find his decision kind of crazy, but I clearly understood why he picked yoga over breakfast.

I often think about how to describe the kind of yoga we offer at The Yoga Room. It’s not typical yoga.

It’s more like tools for living. If you have a headache, we’ve got some yoga for you. If you’re stressed, we’ve got some yoga for you. If your back hurts, we’ve got some yoga for you. If your energy is low, we’ve got some yoga for you. If your mind is scattered, we’ve got some yoga for you. If you’ve got anything at all going on in your life, we have some yoga for you.

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A good yoga practice can turn your whole day around. You’ll be more mentally focused, more productive, more creative, more energized, more peaceful, more easeful in your body. Really. I’m serious. Even if you think you’re too (fill in the blank) to practice yoga. Yoga is magical.

So as it turned out that day, Nick and I were at the studio early enough that we each got to work on our own practices a bit before the first class started. I suggested some specific poses to address his goals, after this relatively short, customized practice, he felt energized, focused, and prepared to face his day. And he still had time to go home and grab some breakfast before heading to work.

Have you ever had this feeling? That getting to a yoga class is your day’s highest priority? That everything will be better after an hour on your mat?

Take a minute to think about what needs sorting in your life, then use that as your intention next time you come in for a class. You know we love to share the yoga - come in and see us soon!


XO, Zelinda

P.S. - Need help figuring out the right class for you? Shoot me a note, and I’ll be happy to help! Oh, and if classes aren't exactly what you're looking for, check out our Private Lessons, Workshops, Beginners Series, and Teacher Training.

Be Kind. All The Time.

Something's been weighing on my heart this week. There's a boy in one of my kids classes who is usually kind of loud. He causes a good amount of disruption and I very frequently have to redirect his focus and bring him back to whatever lesson we're working on.

Well this week, when we were working on some challenging poses, I realized he expressed doubt, uncertainty, and frustration every time I provided an instruction. He kept saying, "Ugh! I can't do that!"

So, just as I do in all my classes, I asked him to be more kind with himself. I reminded him that it doesn't matter what the pose looks like, what's important is how it feels. I asked him to try *less* hard.

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I wanted him to find some ease. I wanted him to find a version of each posture that made him feel like he was doing a good job.

He seemed to get the concept of being kind with himself, and he was able to do more poses without complaint. But every once in a while I'd hear, "Ugh! I can't do that!" So I'd gently remind him again to Be Kind with himself, not worry about what he thinks the pose is supposed to look like, and find a version that feels good for his body.

A little later he suddenly said, "My dad says I'm not good at any sport. I've played a lot of sports and I'm not good at any of them." And my heart broke a little. I didn't know what to say.

After a few minutes I asked him what sport he plays now. He told me he plays lacrosse. Then I asked him what does HE think he does well in lacrosse. He said that he thinks he's a good catcher. So I said, "Well, there you go! YOU are a good catcher in lacrosse! You ARE a good catcher in lacrosse! You are!" And I nodded and smiled to appear as convincing as possible.

I told him to remember what makes him feel good about himself, and to not worry too much about what other people think.

And this got me thinking about how almost everybody (myself included), even if we know better, sometimes we lose track of ourselves and we listen to the negative things people say about us. Without realizing what we're doing, we take those negative comments and adopt them as our truth. We start to believe the bad things.

If we're lucky, we might have a moment of clarity and realize that the negative person is probably dealing with their own stuff, and their negative comment really doesn't have anything to do with us. But probably more often we hold on to those negative comments and allow them to hurt and damage us in a variety of ways.

So I started to think about the yogic advice I gave this sweet boy: Be Kind. And I realized that we all need to Be Kind. All The Time. Be kind with ourselves. Be kind with others. Especially, Be Kind With Kids. Because we're forming their perception of themselves, and they deserve to love themselves.

How can you Be Kind? Pay attention and notice what you do well and be proud and love yourself for doing those things well. Pay attention to what others do well and compliment them on the things they do well. I promise, this will make your whole life better. And I bet your kindness will rub off on other people and they'll want to Be Kind, too.

As for the boy in my class, I realize now that the reason he was creating so much disruption was to distract me and his classmates from his perceived lack of ability in yoga. He was being a clown to avoid participating. But now I'm onto him.

I'm going to Be Kind with him and, through yoga, I'm going to teach him how to Be Kind with himself. And I think that as he learns to Be Kind with himself, his behavior is going to change and he's going to be more focused during his practice. And I hope that over time, he'll become such an expert at Being Kind that when anyone tries to tell him something negative, it'll roll right off his back.


XO, Zelinda

P.S. When I told my friend Pichi about this story, she remembered this video she saw recently. You should check it out. It's perfect.